the Internet is perfect for ppl like us. Mine's 3rd grade. I was
   lucky in that I fought back mentally and decided to deal with
   people as individuals rather than groups. I don't trust groups
   of 3 or more, and rarely groups of 2 even. I also try not to
   join groups. If I find more than a few people agreeing with me,
   I often flip to contrary mode because I don't want to be a
   majority opinion most of the time, especially if it requires
   belittling others, either who are there or not there. Keeps me
   spry... and annoying to deal with at times smile emoticon I'm
   agreeable one-on-one and in agreeable groups, but when there's
   disagreement, I side with the 'other guy', always. I could've
   been a defense attorney in another life, if there's such a
   thing. I call them "alternate timelines". Different parents,
   different life circumstances, I'd be up there defending the
   worst person, not to necessarily get them off - if they're wrong
   their wrong - but so that at LEAST they get their day in court
   and a decent hearing rather than a pitchfork and torch lynching.