So, I understand the fundamental disconnect between name and
   person* and even put my money where my mouth is. Just the same,
   if your friend is hurt, your friend is hurt. It's not their
   attachment to their name that's the issue. It's their attachment
   to the hurt that's attached to you, nameless beings all. Let's
   take time and space out of it. There's a hurting. There's a
   known solution for a hurting. Names or not, the hurting is a
   verb that remains in the eternal present yet it is possible to
   modify the eternal present. == Also consideration: If it is a
   lesson you wish to teach and the student is failing to receive
   the lesson, - is it not the teacher's responsibility to improve
   communication and not the student being unable to understand? ==
   But, I am preaching and interfering. For that, I apologize.
   Carry on as you desire -* I am just enacting my desire to reduce
   a hurting in some fashion and if I am ineffective, it is my
   responsibility and nobody else's. Thank you for listening. It is
   always appreciated and I appreciate your time. I do not desire
   you to change a thing. Freedom from desire takes effortlessness
   and I exerted effort here in my inertial stubbornness. I shall
   continue gliding along.