I've actually drawn up several religions for the purpose. One of
   my favorites is a scientific religion. All the songs would be
   based on accepted scientific things - physical phenomenon, the
   elements, forces, a particular animal, etc. There'd be a science
   experiment every week on stage and discussions afterwards about
   various topics. Set up similarly to church services. The
   intention is a respect for the world-as-it-is as far as we know,
   a gratitude. Not pantheism just gratefulness. Then all of the
   marvelous social benefits that come with the communities formed
   around church structures would come with it. I've had others as
   well, centered around various different things but generally
   would be excuses for people to gather in community. I, too, am
   concerned about the lack of community for men. I don't know if
   women have it easier honestly but I know men have few social
   outlets like this. Bars? Sports? Not a whole lot of options.