I can only go my experience really. Methodist. Boy Scouts. I was
   always a do-gooder, but didn't care if others weren't "doing
   good", so long as they didn't bug me too much. == I had my time
   among the throngs of ppl. Emotional manipulation, topsy-turvy
   power struggles, people asserting their perceived authority and
   me being a smart ass in return. It's a game and I know how to
   play it but I'm happier now. ==