Why do I think words of wisdom will come out of my head if I just sit here with a pen and paper like this instead of my computer or phone that is connected to other people who are on the other side of the Internet? 1) Conversational norms of some kind are present there.* Less enforced here. 2) Search space is different this way. a) Social: Search space is self + not selfs. b) Self: is self. ==== What is self search space? 1) Whatever I can recall and conceive utilizing self as each side of a conversation. === Why is this better? 1) Inner diplomacy. A peaceful mind is a more desirable goal because inner war physically hurts With not selfs, the war is externalized and I will not feel their pains unless I empathize, then I will feel the pain of their disagreement and the relief of agreement. Kenneth Udut 01/30/2016 in little 3x5 notebook.