^If you know you are doing the right things and can handle minor
   disapproval, you can go far. it's easy to handle black and white
   situations (love/hate, victim/oppressor) - but much harder to
   deal with minor disapprovals, as those are the subtle things
   that can get under your skin. if you can handle them and carry
   on with what you know are the right things, you'll be okay.^