Well, Janis, I mean, in general, I believe that comparisons are
   silly because everybody's "norm" is set differently - all the
   dials and switches have to be 'just so' within a person or at
   least within a certain range and they have to match with another
   person's dials and switches. But I think that to 'click' with
   someone doesn't require all the parameters to be the same - but
   rather, to have the ...agreement of "I will understand what you
   are saying and you will understand what I'm saying and we will
   each feel the other is walking a similar path" and the interplay
   in a conversation or activity -- that's all it takes to be
   normal within a particular group, so really, comparisons aren't
   ever necessary - and comparisons really aren't possible, except
   for the simplest of comparisons. "