and one of the biggest issues with money and people is this: TRUST - and that's where things get icky, sticky, ooey and gooey and messy. "I CAN TRUST YOU WITH THIS, BUT NOT WITH THAT." etc. Know where you can place your trust for each person. Now if it's a men vs women issue - that where self-analysis is key, for many men have an unconscious "DO NOT TRUST" sign on all women, and many women have a motto, "NO MAN CAN BE TRUSTED'. It's usually unconscious, sometimes conscious - but it's something that only looking inward can tell you. yeah, the trust issue with money especially can be hard. "