^Heard in a movie yesterday about an israeli kid being
   persecuted by neighbors for making friends with a British
   soldier in 1947: His parents said to him, "You are the
   scapegoat, son. All their problems they pin on you. Get used to
   it son, it will not change." - yikes - thankfully the movie had
   a happy ending - that was just the darkest point. But how
   nonchalontly the parents were - it shows that they went through
   some hell themselves during WWII, and got used to it. i simply
   could not imagine.^