That's the truth, Deb - I figure if i have to blame anybody for something, i'll pin it on myself. Makes things go way more smoothly 'cause nobody will jump and go, "Oh , no no, it's my fault! " "No no, pick me pick me!" I can remember way back in school, even then, I'd take the fall if it was for a friend and their getting in trouble was way worse than if it was me. Of course, they owed me one -... but that's just how it works. I like complaining about complainers 'cause it makes me feel like I'm not a complainer myself - but of course I am. It's like when a politician complains about how awful politics are - when you're part of the system, you're part of the system. My favorite was back in college - other kids preaching "tolerance" but were inflexible against intolerant people - I'd be like, 'Um... duh - you're being intolerant dude by not b... "