Some situations you can find fairness or justice. Some situations you can't. It's all okay in the end, because you are stronger. it takes a weak person to be a bully - maybe they're physically strong, maybe they're quicker with the comebacks or finding things that hurt you - but they are weaker than you. notice the times you get 'baited" where you're goaded to react - practice NOT taking the bait. Learn to say, "You're right!" without even a hint of sarcasm - make it genuine - that annoys bullies, many women and contrary people alike. "