Whippersnapper! I'm 39 but I decided long ago that I would like to become The Wise Old Man. One of the best thing I learned is that it's okay to say, "I don't know." It used to bother me that I could never interpret some parts of human behavior - greed, jealousy, rage, sneakiness, exclusion, dwelling, rehashing (opening old wounds), power plays - but I'm okay with not understanding these things -... and they're all reasons I couldn't do couples therapy :) But yeah, i still think about doing it. been told years ago that I'd make a great child therapist because I can get to their level and play while not talking down to them. I find that for most people what they need is a Friend, the kind of support and understanding you can't always get from your family. "