Pam: Feminization of Boys - agreed 100%. Used to be boys were encouraged to be adventurous, take chances, learn to solve their own problems through inventiveness and creativity... and you're right - for boys, there's always football, which really is just about the last thing left thats in the 'boys-only' club. I agree in principle that some of the lines between sexes can be crossed or merged --... but there are always some things that are guy things, some things that are girl things. (and in the end, a kid should be encouraged to follow their interests (so long as they're not truly life-threatening!) - sometimes boys like typically girl things and girls like typically boy things and that's okay too - so long as it is really their interests).and Tom + Jerry really *is* a violent cartoon - but cartoon violence is, well, FUNNY - so absurd an... "