You each have such interesting ways to look at the same common
   phrases that we've all heard. It tickles that romantic side -
   the Happily Ever After of Disney fairy tales - the tougher the
   struggle, the greater the love - let's toss the world aside and
   live off our love. Yet then again, we've... either had
   experiences or heard stories that show the darker side - the
   "frontier woman isolation", where the man goes off to find
   food/work/over to his 'other families' and the wife sits. And
   waits. And waits. And waits. Suicide among frontier women was
   extremely high for that reason. Nobody to send the kids off to
   when you're having a bad day - no day off to rest. "