The Lessons of Solitaire 1. There is no such thing as unlimited opportunity. The game does not offer the same chance every time. There are only 52 cards in a deck. 2. It is not always your fault if you can't win. The deal is random. The cards can be dealt in a way that gives you no chance of winning the game. No matter what choices you may make, it is impossible to win a game in which you can't make even one move! Who is to blame? 3. There is no point in obsessing over any one game. A point will come when it becomes apparent that it is impossible to win. It is time to start over. 4. No matter what occurred in a previous game, a new deal is a new deal. The cards hold nothing against you. Life is a lot like Solitaire. Too many people cherish illusions about it that keep them sitting around shifting a card back and forth when they should just try a new deal.