--------------------- Good Enough Principles --------------------- I try to live with the reason that I will be dead, and while I am still alive I should not hurt other people. It's easier said than done since I do hurt some people quite frequently, especially those who are very close to me. And sometimes I think, is just the realisation enough? If I meditate on the fact that I do sometimes hurt people who are close to me, is that enough? Not quite. I guess a major chunk of life depends on you serving other people out of love and affection. And I've experienced it too much, just giving myself away to people who are very close to me, without expecting anything in return does make a lot of difference in the relationship, as well as in my own life.