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       # 2020-02-27 - Home Massage by Chuck Fata and Suzette Hodnett
       
       I was pretty excited to find this book because i am enthusiastic
       about DIY massage exchange.  In my experience, exchanging massage
       with friends has been 100% positive.  However, this was always with
       friends who were already comfortable with touch and with their own
       bodies.
       
       The major drawback is that DIY massage is way outside the comfort
       zone of many people.  One friend told me that without exception,
       every single time she received a massage from a man, it was an
       attempt to seduce her.
       
       One thing i wish this book had covered is self-massage.  A yoga
       teacher advocated self-massage, especially self foot-massage.  It is
       not as good as receiving a massage from someone else, but it is way
       better than no massage at all.  Self-massage tools such as foam
       rollers, tennis balls, and trigger point massagers can work wonders
       when needed.  My foam roller really helped when my back pain was at
       its worst.  Between these tools and yoga, i can address about 75% of
       my own physical pain-relief and relaxation needs.
       
       Below are a few links related to self-massage:
 (HTM) Self-Massage Tips for Myofascial Trigger Points
 (HTM) Massage category at wikihow.com
       
       And without further ado, below are my notes from the book.
       
       # Foreword
       
       Our social upbringing, our poor experiences with touch, our physical
       and emotional injuries and the rules and regulations imposed on us at
       our workplaces and schools have slowly and surreptitiously led us to
       put up barriers so that we might find ourselves not touching or being
       touched for days [on end].  Human touch is as vital to our physical
       and emotional health as food and water.  Would we consider going
       without food and water?  [It's called fasting.]
       
       Touch is our innate wisdom.  It is not something we need to learn,
       but something we need to remember.
       
       # Introduction
       
       Who says massage has to be only in the hands of the professionals?
       Anyone can do it!
       
       To achieve a happy family life, experts agree that we need to
       communicate with each other more, not only via our speech but also
       with the healing vocabulary of loving touch.  Touch is our first
       language.
       
       # Chapter 1, Touch Heals
       
       Before the advent of drugs, medicine consisted mainly of touch.
       
       Touch is a primal need.  It is considered stronger than verbal or
       emotional contact. ... Beyond mere survival, touch improves our
       physical health, relationships, and emotional well-being.
       
       America is what anthropologists call a "non-tactile society."
       Compared with most societies around the world, we are "touchy about
       touch."  Our culture has now convinced us that touch is dangerous.
       Fears of sexual abuse and improper touch haunt innocent adults.
       No-touch laws in schools restrict teachers from hugging their
       students or even picking up preschoolers who fall on the playground.
       
       The truth is that we have become a "touch-starved" nation.  Many
       people are unaware of the emotional and physical effects of their
       touch deprivation.
       
       The truth is that often touch is more than appropriate--it may be the
       very best way to communicate and connect with those we love.
       
       # Chapter 2, Stress
       
       Stress is the gradual and insidious running down of our general
       health.  Chronic stress undermines the body's ability to fix itself
       and causes psychological and physical disease.
       
       The stress response is our body's rapid and automatic switch into
       high gear.
       
       Perhaps noting can age us more rapidly--internally or
       externally--than high stress.
       
       # Chapter 3, Home Massage
       
       Factors of cost and convenience can limit visits to certified massage
       therapists, and thus we are vastly underutilizing the many healing
       benefits of massage.  The truth is that you don't have to be a
       massage therapist to give soothing, healing massage.
       
       With home massage, we find relief from a variety of ailments without
       the financial burden of medical bills.  As health insurance costs
       soar, our need for self-responsibility and prevention becomes even
       more important.
       
       The real benefits of massage for both the giver and the receiver are
       realized with the duration of touch.  This is where the magic happens.
       
       When we become comfortable massaging someone--when we can give and
       receive non-sexual touch for 10 to 50 minutes--we are transformed.
       
       # Chapter 4, The Three Principles
       
       ## Principle one: Create a safe place of honor and respect
       
       The beauty of home massage is that by working on family and friends a
       certain level of trust already exists, allowing relaxation to occur
       at a deeper level.  Understanding that we are creating a sacred, safe
       place of honor and respect builds upon that trust and allows for deep
       healing.
       
       Massage is a conversation without words.  Listening to the person on
       the table with your whole mind, body, and spirit takes energy and the
       best of intentions. ... Always remember the tremendous healing power
       of simply listening.
       
       An unwritten contract
       
       
       The giver creates an unwritten contract with the receiver that the
       massage will be done with a great sense of honor and respect.  There
       is an agreement that the massage is a "time out" from our daily
       responsibilities and there will be no talk about such things as
       money, school, or work.
       
       There is an agreement that the massage will be non-sexual in
       conversation, insinuation, and behavior.
       
       Both the giver and the receiver will enter the massage with a kind,
       patient, and nonjudgmental spirit.
       
       When the unwritten contract is understood and consistently
       experienced, trust grows and the receiver will let go and a healing,
       relaxing massage will naturally occur.
       
       ## Principle two: Encourage the art of massage
       
       Intentions
       
       
       The "art of massage" focuses on being present and being comfortable
       in mind, body, and spirit.  The art of massage comes from what is
       within us.  It is... our intentions, our heartfelt presences, and our
       comfort level--that separate an ordinary massage from a great,
       healing massage.
       
       Being present
       
       
       Massage is a meditation shared by two people--a quiet conversation
       through the medium of touch.  Being present in mind, body, and spirit
       allows you to focus all of your energy on the massage.
       
       The dynamics of the giver and receiver relationship should never
       become a power imbalance that makes the person on the table feel
       vulnerable.  The vulnerability of the receiver should be met with
       kindness and compassion.  Rather than feeling powerful, [the giver]
       should be thankful for the privilege of massaging [the receiver].
       
       Being comfortable
       
       
       Your comfort as the giver is as important as the comfort of the
       receiver.  The more relaxed you are touching your partner; the more
       comfortable [they] will be accepting your touch.
       
       Being comfortable will allow the massage to reach another level.
       
       ## Principle three: Take the mystique out of massage techniques
       
       But massage techniques by themselves don't heal.  It is the
       connection between the giver and the receiver during the massage that
       is the catalyst for healing.
       
       # Chapter 5: Preparation
       
       [Massage] can be done anywhere and anytime.  No specialized equipment
       is needed--only your healing hands, your good intentions, and a
       willing and trusting partner.  Our sense of calm and relaxation is
       affected by the environment that surrounds us.  Thus, some
       forethought in creating the most comfortable environment for both the
       giver and receiver will greatly enhance a feeling of deep relaxation.
       
       ## The room
       
       Provide a quiet, private, uncluttered space away from household
       distractions.  Turn off or disconnect all phones.
       
       Make sure the lighting is soft and subdued to allow the eyes of the
       receiver to relax completely.
       
       Provide a room that is warm and draft-free.
       
       Choose a time when you and your partner will be undisturbed.  Let
       others in your household know that this is your time and ask them to
       honor your space without interruptions.
       
       Some [like] music while others find it distracting.  Honor the wishes
       of the receiver.
       
       Tips for an undisturbed massage
       
       
       * Make child care arrangements.
       * Refrain from eating a heavy meal before the massage.
       * Provide a room that is warm and draft-free.
       * Let everyone in the house know the time and duration of the
         massage.
       * Hang a "do not disturb" sign on the door.
       * Turn off or disconnect all phones.
       * Go to the bathroom before the beginning of the massage.
       * Give yourself time after the massage to relax.
       
       Checklist [for massage preparation]
       
       
       * Two clean soft towels or sheets.
       * Light blanket for warmth.
       * Pillow or bolster for underneath the legs.
       * Massage oil or lotion.  [We preferred coconut oil.]
       * Tissues to wipe your hands.
       * Clock.
       * Water for the receiver during and after the massage.
       * Music.
       * Comfortable clothes.
       
       The floor is a massage surface that is available anywhere...  Be sure
       to place several cushions down to create a firm bed.  You can use
       foam, a mattress pad, or a futon.
       
       The floor can be a challenge for the giver's body.  Only massage for
       the length of time you are comfortable.  If necessary take a few
       silent breaks during the massage to stretch.
       
       A good massage table is a worthy investment.
       
       Set the table height so that when you stand next to it, the top of
       the knuckles of your relaxed arms brush the table surface.
       
       To benefit fully from the massage as a receiver, relax and let go of
       worries and concerns.  As soon as you lie down, let yourself melt
       into the working surface.  Close your eyes and become aware of your
       breathing and the parts of your body that move as you inhale and
       exhale.  Rather than trying to help, surrender to the massage.  Let
       the giver know if you particularly enjoy a certain stroke or movement.
       
       Tips for the giver
       
       
       * Always wash your hands before giving a massage.
       * Remove all jewelry.
       * Wear loose clothing.
       * Wear comfortable shoes or go barefoot.
       * Leave your daily worries and concerns behind and put a relaxed
         energy and focus into the massage.
       * Keep conversation to a minimum.
       * Remain present and be aware of the receiver's needs.
       
       Tips for the receiver
       
       
       * Do not eat for about 90 minutes before the massage.
       * Remove all jewelry.
       * Remove makeup, contact lenses, and glasses.
       * The giver of the massage cannot "fix" anyone.  Rather they assist
         or facilitate the healing process.  To benefit from this process,
         the receiver must relax and be open to the touch of the giver.
       * During the massage, let the giver know if you want less or more
         pressure.
       * Remember, the massage is for your pleasure.  Let the giver know
         your needs, whether you want music, the room is too cold, or you
         need a blanket for warmth.
       
       Relax and let go
       
       
       Before giving a massage, take a few minutes to come down from your
       day's activities.  You can meditate, listen to soft, soothing music,
       and take a few deep breaths.
       
       During the massage, most of your attention will be on the receiver.
       It is important, however, to occasionally bring your attention back
       to yourself.  Check to see that your breath is open, your shoulders
       are relaxed, and that you are not straining yourself in any way.
       
       Centering exercise
       
       
       This centering technique combines breath awareness with the phrase or
       mantra "Let go."  It is especially helpful when you are tense or
       fixating on a stressful situation or [an unpleasant] thought or
       emotion.
       
       Sit cross-legged or kneel down on the floor, putting a cushion under
       your buttocks.  Do whatever it takes to make yourself feel
       comfortable.  As you inhale, silently or out loud say "Let."  [Or you
       can whisper it, which is easier than using your vocal cords on
       inhale.]  As you exhale say "go" while letting go of all that is
       stressing you.
       
       Repeat this exercise for three to five minutes.
       
       ## When to say no
       
       One contraindication you should ALWAYS FOLLOW is a request from the
       receiver to stop what you are doing or to not work on a specific area.
       
       Total contraindications
       
       
       * Contagious diseases or infections including colds and flu
       * Recent operations or acute injury
       * Skin disease
       * Fever
       
       Local areas to avoid
       
       
       * Varicose veins
       * Bruises
       * Cuts and abrasions
       * Undiagnosed pain [Really?  Massage could be for pain relief.]
       * Swollen areas and areas of inflammation
       
       Medical conditions
       
       
       * Cancer, diabetes, heart problems, osteoporosis, and other bone
         disease and other medical conditions do not mean that massage
         cannot take place.  With these and other conditions, it is best to
         check with your physician.
       * The very young, the elderly, and pregnant women all should be
         handled with great care.
       
       ## Time to talk
       
       Before you start the massage, spend a few minutes discussing your
       partner's needs.  Listen to any concerns.  If this is the first time
       massaging the person, ask if [they] have any places on the body that
       you should avoid massaging.
       
       ## Applying oil or lotion
       
       First, apply the lubricant to your hands and rub it on.  If the
       lubricant feels cold, rub it into your hands until it feels warm
       enough to apply.  Using a gliding stroke, cover the part of the body
       you want to work on first.
       
       Be sparing with the amount of lubricant you apply.  Use enough to
       glide along the tissue while still maintaining a gentle friction.  If
       you apply too much, do not wipe it off.  Instead, softly pat the
       lubricated area with a towel to remove excess.
       
       It is a nice touch to have a bowl with hot water in the room in which
       to place the lotion.  This warms the lotion...
       
       Never apply the oil or lotion directly on the receiver.  Apply it to
       your hands, then spread it where you want to work.
       
       When possible, use a hypoallergenic product.
       
       ## Draping
       
       Draping plays an essential role in creating a secure environment for
       the receiver to feel safe and honored.  A flat twin-sized sheet
       provides a very effective, secure cover.  Uncover only the part of
       the body you are massaging.  The sheet should protect the rest of the
       body.  [IMHO, this sounds like theatre.]
       
       ## Proper body stance
       
       Using good body mechanics and leaning into the movements improves
       efficiency, power, and strength while reducing stress on the giver.
       Use your body to apply pressure and keep your hands soft [relaxed].
       Pay attention to your own body and mind while you are giving a
       massage.
       
       # Chapter 6, Simple strokes
       
       Slower movements are generally soothing and relaxing while faster
       movements tend to energize and invigorate.
       
       ## Gentle stroke
       
       Gentle touch means simply laying your hands on your partner's covered
       body without movement.  Your willingness to be still, to do nothing,
       and to expect nothing promotes a sense of calm and peace.
       
       This gentle touch without movement should always be used to initiate
       the massage.  It signals your partner that the massage is about to
       begin, creates a necessary connection, and sets the tone for a
       continuous sense of safety, comfort, and relaxation.  It is also a
       gentle way to end the massage.
       
       ## Effleurage stroke / gliding stroke
       
       After the application of gentle touch used to initiate the massage,
       the effleurage stroke is often next in sequence.  The simple name for
       the effleurage stroke is the gliding stroke.
       
       The simplicity and ease of applying this movement, particularly when
       done in a rhythmic fashion, makes this an effective manipulation to
       use repeatedly while gradually increasing the pressure.  It is also
       excellent for warming up an area to prepare for more detailed work.
       
       ## Petrissage stroke / kneading stroke
       
       The petrissage stroke is best to use after you have warmed the tissue
       with the gliding stroke.  Petrissage movements include the wringing,
       lifting, and rolling of tissue and skin.  To prevent pinching, the
       kneading stroke should be done slowly and with soft [relaxed] hands.
       
       The kneading stroke can be used to soothe tired, aching, and
       overworked muscles.  When done correctly with a smooth rhythm,
       kneading is one of the most pleasurable strokes to receive.
       
       ## Thumb circling stroke
       
       Thumb circling strokes can be applied gently on places like the
       forehead.  It can be a penetrating stroke over areas such as the
       lower back, between the shoulder blades and spine, and on calf
       muscles.  Be sure to warm the area before using thumb circling,
       especially before doing deep work.
       
       Place the pads of your thumbs on the area you are working and
       gradually lean into the flesh.  Next, make small, penetrating
       circular movements.  It is best to keep your hands and thumbs soft
       [relaxed] when doing this movement.  Tightening your hands and thumbs
       will not feel good to the receiver and may cause your thumbs and
       hands to become sore and irritated.  Only apply as much pressure as
       is comfortable for [both] you and the receiver.
       
       If you are uncomfortable using your thumbs, you can use a knuckling
       circular motion to achieve the same effect.
       
       ## Compression
       
       Compression strokes are simple and do just that... by compressing the
       tissue, holding for a moment, then slowly releasing.
       
       The heel of the hand can be used to compress the back of the leg, the
       lower back, or the shoulders.  Whole hands can be wrapped around an
       arm or foot to squeeze and compress.  Fingertips can be placed on the
       temples or the jaw to lightly compress, hold, and release.
       
       When using the heels of the hands, slowly add pressure by leaning
       your body into your hands, hold for a moment, then slowly release by
       moving your body back.  As with the other strokes, apply the
       compression stroke rhythmically.  The body likes rhythm.  It is a
       comforting movement, similar to rocking a baby.
       
       # Chapter 7, Massage routines
       
       Massage routines are specific strokes linked in a variety of ways to
       various parts of the body.  A massage routine can be a planned
       sequence of strokes, or intuitive from beginning to the end of the
       massage.
       
       ## One possible sequence
       
       * The back and shoulders
       * The legs
       * The feet
       * The arms and hands
       * The abdomen
       * The head and neck
       
       A good way to begin your massage is with strokes that relax and warm
       your partner's muscles.  These are usually the long, sweeping
       effleurage strokes.  After your partner is relaxed and [their]
       muscles have been warmed, you can apply more specific and deeper
       techniques.
       
       A good rule to follow is to transition one stroke smoothly into the
       next, the same way an accomplished dancer flows from one move into
       another.
       
       ## 1. The back and shoulders
       
       After applying the initiating gentle touch, the back provides a
       wonderful starting point for your massage journey.  It is a part of
       the body that most people are comfortable touching and most people
       are comfortable being touched.  It is the largest part of the body to
       work on and the easiest on which to practice those long, gliding
       strokes.
       
       There are many nerves branching out from the spine to all parts of
       the body.  A good back massage can have a calming effect on your
       entire nervous system.
       
       [The book goes into wonderful detail, describing how to perform
       specific strokes, and special considerations for each stroke in each
       of the main areas of the body.  These instructions are well-written,
       but they go into too much detail for me to summarize in these notes.]
       
       # Chapter 8, Family
       
       To put the world right in order, we must first put the nation in
       order; to put the nation right in order, we must first put the family
       in order;  to put the family right in order, we must first cultivate
       our personal life; we must set our hearts right.  --Confucius
       
       ## A natural expression
       
       Massage is transforming family life.  Families report fewer fights,
       more laughter, better health, and increased relaxation.  They find
       that they spend less time watching television and on the computer and
       more time on the massage table, connecting with one another.
       
       Home massage should be a fun, loving, and joyful time.  Create an
       atmosphere in the home that is comfortable with touch.  Sharing
       massage in the home allows parents to model proper touch with their
       children.
       
       # Chapter 9, Children
       
       As parents, we "do" for our children.  We feed them, taxi them, and
       give them material things.  But it is the hugs, pats, and embraces
       that children remember and cherish.  Touch reassures children of
       their worth.  Research shows that children deprived of touch grow up
       with a tendency towards physical violence, sleep disorders,
       suppressed immune systems, and impaired physical and emotional
       growth.  Knowing through touch that they are loved gives children the
       strength and the foundation to deal with the stresses, strains, and
       insults of life.
       
       Always remember to respect and honor your child by listening to them.
       Never force your touch on them.
       
       While teachers and other adults once felt comfortable patting a child
       on the shoulder or giving [them] a hug, they are now advised to avoid
       all physical contact for fear of misinterpretation.  As parents we
       must make up for this lack of touch from the world and improve our
       physical interactions with children at home.
       
       How can we teach children the dangers of improper touch without first
       teaching them what appropriate touch feels like?
       
       # Chapter 10, Adolescence
       
       Adolescence is one of the most difficult stages of our lives.  During
       this dynamic period, teenagers not only encounter awkward physical
       changes but they also have the added expectation of approaching
       adulthood, which creates emotional stress and conflict.
       
       Teenagers sometimes shut down their emotions as a method of coping
       with the unpredictability and change in their lives.  Sometimes they
       become irritable, angry, or resort to [drugs] as a way to cope.
       Parents can have a difficult time adjusting to the changing moods of
       their teenage children.
       
       ## Connecting with your teen
       
       If children are raised being comfortable with touch, that sense of
       comfort will naturally carry over into adolescence.
       
       Adolescents crave intimacy but often look for it in the wrong places.
       By the time they reach junior high, they receive only half the touch
       they did during their younger years.  The touch they do receive is
       now different--shoulder to shoulder and elbow to elbow--rather than
       hand contact.  If they experience touch at home through the natural
       connection of massage, they are not likely to seek dangerous and
       unhealthy avenues for emotional and physical contact...
       
       # Chapter 11, Couples
       
       ## Non-sexual touch
       
       Many relationships fail because couples don't know how to hold each
       other with this kind of intimate, non-sexual touch.  Unfortunately,
       movies, television, and billboards all suggest that touch equals sex.
       
       Home massage offers couples a way to lovingly connect in a
       non-threatening, non-sexual environment.  On the massage table, each
       partner acts from the unwritten agreement that the time together on
       the table will be non-sexual and non-seducing.  This allows each
       partner to totally relax and enjoy the gift of touch without sexual
       expectation.  No matter how little or how much touch we received as
       children, we all need a steady diet of this loving touch.
       
       # Chapter 12, Infants
       
       Touch lets babies know that they are loved and safe.  Touch is the
       first developed sense and therefore one of the most highly developed
       senses in infants.  Touching, cuddling, hugging, and stroking are the
       natural, nurturing ways for parents to bond with their infants.  The
       more a newborn is touched, the better [their] physical and emotional
       growth.
       
       Make sure the room is kept warm and the area well padded.
       
       Choose a time when the baby is relaxed to give a massage.  The best
       times are between feedings, after a bath, shortly after waking, right
       before bedtime, or simply when you both feel the need for closeness.
       If the baby seems happy, continue.  If the baby seems fussy, try
       again later.
       
       [The book has many good practical tips for infant massage.]
       
       Babies digestive systems are quite sensitive.  Keep your touch gentle
       and always clockwise.  Moving counter-clockwise could cause
       constipation.
       
       ... slowly rotate the baby's legs in a bicycle-riding pattern.  This
       can help ease gas pains and has a playful rhythm for both parent and
       child.
       
       # Chapter 13, The elderly
       
       Touch is essential for our well-being at all ages, but we receive the
       least in our later years.
       
       Massage can greatly enhance the quality of life for the elderly.
       
       ## Caring touch
       
       Often just an embrace, light touch, or gently stroke will make your
       elderly relative feel loved, appreciated, and nurtured.
       
       Just remember that an aging body requires extra tender, loving care.
       Be soft and gentle.  Sometimes the skin of the elderly tends to be
       dryer and often loses some of its absorption capabilities.  Often
       they are taking medication s which can affect absorption as well.
       Start with very little or no oil.  Use light pressure to insure
       [ensure] that no harm is done.
       
       ## Increasing circulation
       
       Many elderly relatives or friends may have difficulty walking or
       don't have full use of their hands due to arthritis.  Massaging their
       feet and hands will increase their circulation.  Rotate and flex the
       wrist or ankle to help improve the mobility of the joints.
       
       # Conclusion
       
       ## Our choice
       
       The path to health, connection, and balance has many names, but all
       involve choice.
       
       * To close down or open up?
       * To withdraw or reach out?
       * To speed up or slow down?
       * To stay in denial or move into truth??
       * To isolate or connect?
       * To live or merely exist?
       
       Home massage asks us to slow down.  It reminds us how relaxation
       feels.  It connects us with those we love.  It teaches honor and
       respect.  It returns us to our natural ability to heal ourselves and
       others through touch.
       
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       # Suggested reading
       
       ## Touch and massage
       
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       * Heller, Morton, A.  The Psychology of Touch.  Hillsdale, NJ:
         Lawrence Erlbaum Assoc., 1991.
       * Josipovici, Gabriel.  Touch.  New Haven, CT:Yale University
         Press, 1996.
       * Juhan, Deane.  Job's Body: A Handbook for Bodywork.  Barrytown,
         NY: Station Hill Press, 1987.
       * Krieger, Dolores. Ph.D., R.N.  The Therapeutic Touch: How to Use
         Your Hands to Help or to Heal.  New York: Prentice-Hall, 1979.
       * Kychinskas, Susan.  The Chemistry of Connection: How the Oxytocin
         Response Can Help You Find Trust, Intimacy and Love.  Oakland, CA:
         New Harbinger Publicatoins, Inc., 2009.
       * Lidell, Lucinda with Sara Thomas, Carola Beresford Booke and
         Anthony Porter.  The Book of Massage.  New York: Simon & Schuster
         Inc., 1984.
       * Montagu, Ashley.  Touching: The Human Significance of the Skin.
         New York: Harper and Row Publishers, 1986.
       * Sayre-Adams, Jean, et al.  The Theory and Practice of Therapeutic
         Touch.  New York: Churchill Livingstone, 2001.
       * Simon, Sidney B.  Caring, Feeling, Touching.  Niles, IL: Argues
         Communications, 1976.
       * Sullivan, Karin Horgan.  The Healing Power of Touch: The Many
         Ways Physical Contact Can Cure.  Lincolnwood, Ill: Publications
         International, Ltd., 1998.
       * Thomas, Zach.  Healing Touch: The Church's Forgotten Language.
         Longville, KY:Westminster John Knox Press, 1994.
       * Webb, Marcus and Maria.  Healing Touch: A Complete Guide to the
         Use of Touch Therapies that Promote Well-Being.  New York: Sterling
         Publishing Company, 1999.
       
       ## Infant massage
       
       * Ady, Mary.  An Infant Massage Guidebook: For Well, Premature, and
         Special Needs Babies.  Bloomington, IN: Authorhouse, 2008.
       * Heath, Alan and Nicki Bainbridge.  Baby Massage: The Calming
         Power of Touch.  London, England: DK Adult, 2004.
       * Heller, Sharon, Ph.D.  The Vital Touch: How Intimate Contact With
         Your Baby Leads To Happier, Healthier Development.  Henry Holt and
         Co. LLC, 1997.
       * LeBoyer, Frederick.  Loving Hands. The Traditional Art of Baby
         Massage.  New York: Alfred A. Knopf, 1976.
       * Mc Clure, Vimala Schneider.  Infant Massage: A Handbook for
         Loving Parents.  Bantam, 2000.
       * Reese, Suzanne and Milne.  Baby Massage: Soothing Strokes for
         Healthy Growth.  New York, NY:Viking Press, 2006.
       * Staerker, Paul.  Tender Touch: Massage Your Baby to Health and
         Happiness.  Singapore:Twickenham Media Masters, 1999.
       * Toporek, Robert.  New Book of Baby and Child Massage.
         Philadelphia, PA: Running Press, 2001.
       
       ## Pet massage
       
       * Ayrault, Megan, LMP.  The Dog Lovers Guide to Massage: What Your
         Dog Wants You to Know.  Kirkland, WA: All About Animal Massage,
         2009.
       * Hourdebaigt, Jean-Pierre.  Canine Massage: A Complete Reference
         Manual.  Wenatchee, WA: Direct Book Service, 2003.
       * Prasad, Kathleen and Fulton, Elizabeth.  Animal Reiki: Using
         Energy to Heal the Animal in Your Life.  Berkeley Press: Ulysses
         Press, 2006.
       * Robertson, Julia.  Physical Therapy and Massage for the Dog.  New
         York, NY:Thieme/Manson, 2011.
       
       ## Stress
       
       * Forman, Jeffrey W.  Managing Physical Stress with Therapeutic
         Massage.  Clifton Park, NY: Milady, 2006.
       * Kavanagh, Wendy.  Massage Basics: How to Treat Aches and Pains,
         Stress and Flagging Energy.  London, England: Hamlyn, Revised
         Edition, 2009.
       * Inkeles: Gordon.  Unwinding: Super Massage For Stress Control.
         New York: Grove PR, 1998.
       * Roseberry, Monica.  Massage: Simple Solutions for Everyday
         Stresses.  London: Aurum Press Ltd., 2005.
       
       ## Pregnancy
       
       * Osbourne, Carole.  Pregnancy: Pre and Perinatal Massage Therapy.
         Wolter Kluwer, Philadelphia, PA: Lippincott, Williams & Wilkins,
         2009.
       * Stillerman, Elaine.  A Handbook for Relieving the Discomforts of
         Pregnancy.  Brooklyn, New York: Delta, 1992.
       * Waters, Bette.  Massage During Pregnancy.  St. Augustine,
         Florida: Bluewaters Press, 2009.
       
       ## Couples
       
       * Horan, Peggy Morrison.  Connecting Through Touch: The Couples
         Massage Book.  Oakland, CA: New Harbinger, 2007.
       
       ## Children
       
       * Carlson, Frances M.  National Association For The Education of
         Young Children.  Essential Touch: Meeting the Needs of Young
         Children.  Washington, DC: National Association for the Education
         of Young Children.
       * Chapman, Gary.  The Five Love Languages of Teenagers.  Chicago,
         Illinois: Northfield Publishing, 2000
       * Martin, Chia.  The Art of Touch: A Masage Manual for Young
         People.  Prescott, AZ: Holm Press, 1996.
       
       ## Caregiving, illness, the elderly
       
       * Babcock, Elise NeeDell.  When Life Becomes Precious: A Guide for
         Loved Ones and Friends of Cancer Patients.  New York, NY: Bantam
         Books, 1997.
       * Catlin, Ann, LMT, OTR.  Sensitive Massage: Reclaiming the Human
         Touch in Caregiving.  Compassionate Touch, Springfield, MO 2010.
         DVD
       * MacDonald Gayle, M.S,, L.M.T.  Medicine Hands: Massage Therapy
         for People with Cancer.  Findhorn, Scotland: Findhorn Press,
         Revised Second Edition, 2006.
       * Meisler, Deitrich and Meiia, Else.  Massaging the Alzheimer's
         Patient.  Daybreak Geriatric Massage Institute. Dvd.
       * Nelson, Dawn, M.F.A., C.M.T.  From the Heart Through the Hands:
         The Power of Touch in Caregiving.  Findhorn, Scotland: Findhorn
         Press, Third Edition, 2009.
       * Rose, Mary Kathleen.  Comfort Touch: Massage for the Eldery and
         Ill.  Lippincott, Williams and Wilkins, 2006.
       * Thompson, M. Keith, M.D.  Caring For An Elderly Relative: A Guide
         to Home Care.  New York: Prentice-Hall, 1986.
       
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