If you and I have written in the last four months, the above does not apply to you. I miss you. I feel I've missed out on a lot. I feel disorganized. I am not looking forward to Yuletide. I am still writing letters, but I feel left behind. I am likely too distracted, maybe you are gainfully distracted. I revisited my gopher.club phlogroll and had incorrectly formatted listings for 40% of people, plus 30% did not update since 2019. Of that 30%, I know one who is alive and active. If you and I have written in the last four months, the above does not apply to you. I am fine with switching gears but I need some feedback. I am flatout needier than last year and people aware since April 2020 know the reason why. Needy is different from demanding. Let me know you are active, share your gopherhole address, I will test and make better attempt by scheduling my visits. Please be well. My in-laws are deteriorating and it wrecks my heart. Here are Five Questions, because replying to the above may be awkward for some: five questions: 1. Name five things you'd like to learn or do, that you do not care whether or not you'd be terrific at doing, only that they seem interesting or fun. 2. What's the best book you've read this year? Fiction, non-fiction, as long as it has an ISBN. 3. I made a delicious hot chocolate today then remembered I have lactose intolerance. What foods do you wish you could still enjoy? 4. Is there any simple tip or trick for people to lead happier, healthier lives that you've given up sharing or kept to yourself because most don't seem interested or receptive? 5. Describe a perfect day spent indoors at home. Bonus Question for the Morbid, because it's that kind of month: Have you noticed absences of online people you're friendly with? Do you wonder more often now if they're healthy, rather than wonder where they toddled off to? Do you imagine someone is wondering where you toddled off to?