(DIR) Return Create A Forum - Home --------------------------------------------------------- Three Friends (HTM) https://3friends.createaforum.com --------------------------------------------------------- ***************************************************** (DIR) Return to: General Discussion ***************************************************** #Post#: 46292-------------------------------------------------- Re: Went For Chemo Today By: DarienJ Date: June 22, 2024, 3:40 pm --------------------------------------------------------- There are a few medications I am on that cause one to gain weight, Lyrica being one of them, but needs much in my case. I didn't realise you had completely stopped it, Linda and I don't believe you have been on it Moira, not that I recall anyway. #Post#: 46303-------------------------------------------------- Re: Went For Chemo Today By: Moira Date: June 23, 2024, 4:45 am --------------------------------------------------------- Ah well I DID forget to look up my medical records today ...... the sun was shining but it was COLD and the kids were in and out so I never did get much done ! Thats my excuse for forgetting anyway !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Maybe tomorrow but Lyrica IS familiar ! #Post#: 46313-------------------------------------------------- Re: Went For Chemo Today By: DarienJ Date: June 23, 2024, 4:15 pm --------------------------------------------------------- We had a wet and cold weekend here. On Saturday morning I went up to see May, she didn't know who I was really, but knew that I was familiar to her......it's hard to explain really and that is as close as I can get to it. We had a garbled conversation and I had absobloodylutely no idea what she was talking about, but I agreed or whatever and it seemed to be the right response, bless her. Then Saturday afternoon I went to Kmart to get some ne containers to use in my pantry as I wanted to rearrange it....again!!!!! Yesterday we went down to the Farmers Markets, in the rain. Thank goodness most of it is under cover. I bought all my fruit and vegetables, which will last a lot longer and some chicken. When I got home I stripped my bed and washed my sheets as I knew I would be going out earlyish this morning and I rearranged my pantry with the new containers. It's not quite finished, Belinda has a label making machine and I gave her a list of the names I wanted and she will make them up for me. I was exhausted by yesterday afternoon, so I had an early shower and got into my PJs [emoji4] #Post#: 46322-------------------------------------------------- Re: Went For Chemo Today By: Moira Date: June 24, 2024, 4:53 am --------------------------------------------------------- AH I was thinking about May the other day ... just that we had not heard anything lately .. but its good to hear she is still getting along ..... in her own way (((((((((((((((((((((((May))))))))))))))))))))))))))) Remind me How old is she now ? I don't know anyone like May but I have heard tell how they talk and talk about nothing really and you do have to just agree with them. Thinking about it... that was how Dink ended up ... talking rubbish but we would nod and agree. Sad really but Dink was also mentally .... whatever they call it !!! :( I wish we had a Farmer's Market here but even at the monthly Waverley Market ... they do not have that much vege. stuff for sale. It's more a Craft Market. So you had a BUSY Sunday !!! It is supposed to be a Day of Rest :) #Post#: 46332-------------------------------------------------- Re: Went For Chemo Today By: DarienJ Date: June 24, 2024, 5:05 pm --------------------------------------------------------- May will be 81 in September, she doesn't look it though. It's so hard to watch someone with dementia, they just sort of fade away, not physically, but the person that they were slowly disappears. One of the other ladies in there, Therese, wanted to walk outside, so May decided we would go with her, but only to a certain spot and then come back. May had hold of my hand and linked it through her arm and when we got to the designated spot, she began to turn. Therese wanted to got further, so she grabbed my other hand and May took a tighter hold on me to keep me with her. It was like a tug-a-war with me being the rope [emoji23] May won and we walked back to go inside in the warm, thank goodness. Some visits are just so bazaar!!!!!! I love the Farmers Markets, but it's best to get there early to get the best vegetables etc. I store them all in containers in the fridge, which helps keep them longer as well. #Post#: 46341-------------------------------------------------- Re: Went For Chemo Today By: Moira Date: June 25, 2024, 4:03 am --------------------------------------------------------- OH Help that was a bit of an experience Darien ..... having two .. oldies .. pulling you in different directions .. it would make you want to run. !! I wonder also if May will remember you visiting :) Do Gail and Rab visit very often ? Have you mentioned Therese before because that name is familiar ... being my Confirmation name or similar, mine is Theresa but I had a mate at school called Therese :) I do always have a lot of vegies in the fridge as I do like my vegies. #Post#: 46349-------------------------------------------------- Re: Went For Chemo Today By: DarienJ Date: June 25, 2024, 4:39 pm --------------------------------------------------------- No, May won't remember me visiting as a couple of times Gail has asked her if she had any visitors and even if it's the same day, May will say No. Gail visits her Mum all the time, Rab not as often and Robert never!!!!! I may have mentioned Therese before as she too has been there a while and I also notice a sharp decline in her mental state now as well. Nothing like farm fresh veggies [emoji846] #Post#: 46357-------------------------------------------------- Re: Went For Chemo Today By: Moira Date: June 26, 2024, 4:37 am --------------------------------------------------------- How good is Gail then and I do also wonder if May knows who she is too when she visits ? At lease May is in a safe environment and is being looked after so it must make Gail feel better to not be worrying about her Mum being home alone :) #Post#: 46365-------------------------------------------------- Re: Went For Chemo Today By: DarienJ Date: June 26, 2024, 5:18 pm --------------------------------------------------------- There is no way that May could have been left at home alone now and she is in a safe place. It's such a sad way for anyone to end their life and May was such a lovely and loving person. I know Gail finds it hard and she also feels guilty for May being where she is. She knows it's silly to feel guilty, but one can't help one's thoughts really. #Post#: 46373-------------------------------------------------- Re: Went For Chemo Today By: Moira Date: June 27, 2024, 4:02 am --------------------------------------------------------- ((((((((((((((((((((((((((Gail)))))))))))))))))))))))))))) She has done her best over the years so now May is in the best and safest place for her to be at this time in her life ((((((((((((((((((((((May))))))))))))))))))))))))))) ***************************************************** (DIR) Previous Page (DIR) Next Page